I was having a conversation with a friend about this very subject, what angers us and irritates us can lead us to a great understanding of ourselves.
You might not think it, but those things we see and can acknowledge so well are because it is something familiar within ourselves (the mirror effect) along with the phrase ‘it takes one to know one’
Think about it.
We can simply learn to see the beauty and best in each other by looking within ourselves. Trust me the minute you truly learn to do this, the way that you look at people and react to the things that happen will change for the better.
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