I remember when I used to blame everything else for the reason why my life was a continual mess. Yes the things that had happened were unfortunate and sad, but in hindsight I could have handled some situations things better, made better choices and listen to my instinct when it was screaming out at me to listen. I remember the times my instinct would be crying out, alarm bells going off in my head and id just brush it off as noise and over thinking and go against it.
Even though it was tough to go through at the time, it’s taught me alot, about myself and since then I have made better choices. The real key to happiness is knowing yourself and what makes you happy.