For years I let others shape my life and I allowed myself to be shaped into things I didn’t want to be but didn’t have the guts to speak out against it.
It was and still is hard to finally find the strength to say no, walk away and do exactly what I wanted, I think at first I had no idea what I wanted but it felt liberating to feel free of relationships that made me feel claustrophobic and stifled. If you have ever got away from a relationship like this feel proud of yourself, even if your alone now it is better to be in your own company than the wrong company!
I know since I started shaping my own life, that it has changed a lot of the relationships around me, some like it and push me to do my best. Others I think aren’t too sure about it Or aren’t very happy, because they are used to the old me that people pleased and bent over backwards.