Everyone makes bad decisions at some point in their life, I myself have made many as much as I can go over it,beat up and hate myself for them it’s a lot more productive to accept and learn from my mistakes and move forwards knowing and making better decisions.
I now call those moments learnings.
Those who don’t take the time to learn will continue on the same ignorant path of bliss believing everything going wrong is somebody else’s fault until they face it.
Those who hold you to your past, need to stay exactly there with it, because they will never allow you move forward. They want to throw the past at you, make them a part of it!